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Bisexuality – a secret tail
I’ve been undermining bisexuality. I don’t realize that by doing it I undermine my reality and sexuality. I always thought heterosexuality or homosexuality. I can grasped slowly about transgender but still thinking bisexuality was something unreal, gray areas, confusion phase of coming out as homosexuality, and undecided. There were some feminists who still consider that it’s not a priority to the organizing work to show your sexuality especially sexual orientation. Particularly if you are living in a conservative and fundamentalist community. But in my experience, when one start to coming in and out as bisexual or homosexual, the world look kind of different. The way you experience your self: body,…
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When a woman speak up about sexuality…
My writings in cyber space, including on YM status, is all about me and everything about me is always shocking for some people. I write about my sexuality, my view on sex, my relationship, my experience, my protest, my feeling, that for sure. Some people warn me to be careful to write about all of my experience on the net because someone can use it for wrong reason like they might hurt me by using information that I provided in the internet. Actually, I get so many lessons and learning from all the response I got. It is something that I can’t get if I never shared that information. Some…
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My body, my journey
I would like to share my insight to be part of this organization, a living innovation that you have helped build. Healing within As you probably know, when I joined this organization in 2008, it was one year after I finished my graduate education. My education in gender studies as part of my healing process. The readings and reflection during my education have helped me a lot in building positive self-concept and convinced myself that sexual violence is notmy body’s fault. I learn to taught myself that my female body doesn’t equate itself as a token to be harassed. It was an awareness that sunk in slowly asI need to…