A therapist told this to her/his/they patients. Stop assuming that people are mad at you.Stop attempting to read people’s minds.Stop trying to manage the thoughts and emotions of others.Let people be in charge of themselves.If they have something to say to you, they will.And if they don’t, it’s their responsibility, not yours. Then someone sent this to me. The thing about building or having something you love (any kind: person, organization, craft, etc), is that it comes with a looming fear of losing or messing it up one day. There’s a very real upside of having nothing to lose, or being on your lowest-doing the bare minimum and yet feeling…